Milongas & Etiquette
SOCIAL CONVENTIONS & COURTESY ON THE DANCE FLOOR
Invite your dance partner by making eye contact. In Milongas, the action of asking someone to dance with eye contact and a nod is called the “cabeceo”.
If one of the partners says “Thank You” at the end of a song, the other one responds in the same way and both move off the floor. It is customary to dance a “tanda” (= a set of 3 to 5 songs) with the same person before saying “thank you” and moving on. “Thank you” signifies your desire to conclude the dance.
A Milonga is a formal party where people dress up and gather to dance Tango. It is very inappropriate to start critiquing or correcting your dance partner’s technique at a Milonga.
Leaders should respect the follower’s choice of embrace.
Respect your partner’s dance style and level.
It is customary for a leader to escort his partner back to her seat when they have finished dancing.
Don’t interrupt people while they are dancing. Your dance partner deserves your undivided attention. If you have some urgent need for information exchange, at least wait until a moment between songs, and keep it very brief.
PERSONAL HYGIENE
Wear a clean shirt and bring a spare if you worry about getting sweaty. Don’t forget to use anti-perspirant. If you use some fragrance, please use it sparingly. Some people have a problem getting up close and personal to heavy fragrance.
WHAT TO DO WITH CORTINAS
At Milongas, the DJs will play a cortina between tandas. A cortina is a short piece (about 30 seconds) of non-tango music that tells the dancers this tanda is over and a new tanda is about to begin. The next tanda will be a different style of music and is normally danced with a new partner.
TRAFFIC & SAFETY
Respect the space of the other couples on the dance floor by dancing circular at the outer perimeter in anti-clockwise direction. It is advisable for leaders to make only one back step.
Don’t overtake, speed, zigzag or cut people off.
Don’t dance in the middle of the floor; the best place to be is in the outer lane.
Dancing couples have absolute right of way on the dance floor. Pedestrians are advised not to walk on the dance floor when not dancing.
Don’t hold up traffic. The floor is constantly moving forward.
Followers are not to be used as human shields for your protection; also, followers (especially with stiletto heels) are not to be deployed as weapons
DRESS CODE
At the Cyprus Tango Meeting, we celebrate the diverse moods of tango—from sunlit seaside gatherings to grand evening galas. Our dress code reflects these transitions, inviting you to express yourself comfortably and stylishly.
Afternoon Milongas: Relaxed & Breezy
Set against the backdrop of the Mediterranean, our afternoon milongas are casual, social, and infused with coastal charm. Think of them as elegant yet laid-back gatherings where comfort meets style.
Suggested Attire:
For All Dancers: Opt for breathable, lightweight fabrics like cotton or linen to stay cool.
For Followers: Flowy skirts or dresses that allow freedom of movement.
For Leaders: Casual trousers or smart jeans paired with a neat shirt or polo.
Footwear: Comfortable dance shoes suitable for outdoor settings.
Accessories: Minimalistic; consider sunglasses or a hat for sun protection.
Embrace the relaxed vibe while ensuring your attire allows you to dance with ease.
Night Milongas: Elegant & Sophisticated
As night falls, the Cyprus Tango Meeting transforms into a realm of elegance. Our evening milongas are formal affairs where dancers dress to impress, reflecting the sophistication of traditional tango gatherings.
Suggested Attire:
For Followers: Elegant dresses or skirts that highlight movement—think slits or flared designs.
For Leaders: Dress trousers with a crisp shirt; adding a blazer or vest elevates the look.
Footwear: Formal dance shoes that complement your outfit.
Accessories: Tasteful additions like jewelry or a pocket square; avoid anything that might hinder movement or comfort.
Please note: Shorts and flip-flops are strictly not allowed at night milongas.
While we encourage formal attire, comfort remains key. Choose outfits that allow you to dance gracefully throughout the night.